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Swinging Terminology

Swinging Terminology

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AC/DC Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual  activity; Bi; Bisexual.
ADULT Euphemism for pornographic.
ANAL Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture.
ARTS Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures
B&D Bondage and discipline (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be  their ideal weight, but are still very attractive.
BEAR A large male homo sexual, often very hairy.
BI Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex  activities.
BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires
BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes,  chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or  hold a participating sexual partner. the person doing  the binding is considered “dominant” while the person  being bound is considered “submissive.”
BUKAKKE A fetish where a girl, or girls, occasionally a guy,  lies naked and lets, or helps guys masturbate and  ejaculate over their naked bodies.
BULL Male who is used by couples to impregnate the female
CAN ACCOMMODATE Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for  swinging.
CAN TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo  or other light wood.
CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse’s knowledge  and/or consent.
CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
CLOSED DOOR or CLOSED SWINGING Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so  that partners of a marriage or other intimate  relationship do not visually observe each other’s  swinging. the rooms are almost ways in the same  house/hotel.
CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger.  (see DISCREET)
COUPLE In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living  together (cohabitating), committed (on going  relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging  purposes.
CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish, Arts.
ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies
SWEDISH CULTURE: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually  stimulate another
CUNNILINGUS Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth  especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth  (see FRENCH CULTURE)
DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic,  for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the  anus.
DIRECTOR the term used to describe the principal person who runs  or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner.  A person who works for the director and is responsible  for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is  generally called a Manager.
DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the  other, a willing participant. Often includes physical  punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from  physical restraint to mild spankings to painful  beatings.
DISCREET OR DISCRETION. Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so  that children or others who may open mail or answer  phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the  swinging activity
DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see  SUBMISSIVE).
DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate  and humiliating nature.
DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive  partner.
EXHIBITIONIST A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or  watched by others while showing sexual portions of the  body or engaging in sexual acts.
FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially  by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual  objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping  or spanking
FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity.
GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may  also be called a Lesbian.
GBM Gay Black Male
GENEROUS Refers to money for sex.
GROUP ROOM Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with  wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in  western US (see MATROOM).
GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
GWM Gay White Male
HARD CORE A swing party or swing engagement where sexual  interaction is assumed and expected.
HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head”
HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure. – See Dirty-david ;)
HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
HORNY. Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure
HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis.
HWP Height-weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their  ideal body weight.
INDOOR SPORTS Swinging activities in general.
INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional  and recreational values.
IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female
LEAthER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of  leather garments.
LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other  women. (see GAY)
Ltr Long Term Relationship
MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual  pleasure of self and others.
MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and  humiliation from others.
MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual  relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US  term (see GROUP ROOM).
MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or  emotional interaction not directly related to sexual  activity
MENAGE A” TROIS three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in  a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going  emotional relationship of the participants. {see  THREESOME, TRIAD)
MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction.
MBC Married Black Couple
MBiC Married Bisexual Couple
MWC Married White Couple
NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers
NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those  who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
N.S.A. No Strings attached.
OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room;  Several or all participating couples together in the  same room; (Western U S) swing party where participants  socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in  one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of  the party
ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the  same room; group sex.
PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for  swinging.
PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear,  Includes wear to the party and wear to change into  during the party. the latter includes robes, lingerie,  terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is  easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and  often makes selected parts of the body easily available  for erotic courting and play.
PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive  corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging.  (see DISCIPLINE)
PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit  photos of self with similar photos of others.
PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually  explicit photographs, color slides or movies with  similar photographs, slides or movies of others;  interested in meeting with others for the making of  these photographs.
PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a  recreational diversion with no desire for emotional  attachment.
RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see CULTURE,  ROMAN)
RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of  rubber, usually associated with BDSM.
SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or  impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy.
S.A.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope.
SBF Single Black Female
SBiF Single Bisexual Female
SBM Single Black Male
S&M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).
SINGLE A swinger without a partner, single or married.
SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a  swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and  socialize. there is no swinging at a social, but  privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers  social and swinging activities including a regular  schedule of on-premise swing parties. they may also  offer educational and travel activities. Usually there  is a membership fee and either party fees, party  donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party  attendance may be restricted to couples though the  marital status of the couple is rarely important.
SOFT SWINGING the term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being  watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not  including intercourse, with someone other than your  spouse. the first experience for many couples some type  of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).
Std Sexually transmitted Disease. A term developed in the  late 1970′s to replace VD as the latter carried social  and moral implications in the minds of many. these  social and moral implications interfered with the  legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as  a medical problem.
Str or Str8 or STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in same sex sexual  activity or A person who does not use drugs.
SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
SWF Single White Female
SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually  carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others  for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of  general interest to the swinging community
SWINGING Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women.  It is a couple oriented activity but single men and  women sometimes are involved.
SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in  recreation, choice of friends, business and social life,  and intimate relationships.
SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic  ideals.
SWM Single White Male
THREESOME three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a  swinging encounter. Not the same as a “menage a” trois”  in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and  a continuing relationship.
TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party  solely to enable the male to gain entrance. the ticket  generally has no intention to swing or is not free to  swing.
TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a  continuing relationship of emotional and sexual  involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for  “threesomes”. this is a common but confusing usage (see  trIAD)
TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian  tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid  Operation in reference to the small incision made just  below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
TWINK Young, attractive male homosexual
UNICORN Nickname for the almost mythical creature – A single female looking for males or couples.
UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle  with humanistic ideals.
VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens  to make a man infertile.
VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the  vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris,  breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile  shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive  ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from  a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men  and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please  another.
VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a  woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to  full but well formed hips.
VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
VWE Very Well Endowed – a very large male organ.
W/E Well Endowed – applies to the male organ – the average  size is about 6″ long and about 5″ in girth when erect.  W/E is anything greater than this.

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