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Swingers club (Montréal) – Entre 2 plaisirs (Review & personal swinging experience)

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Hi,

Just so all readers understand the context of this review, my husband and I met a few years ago after having lived and acquired different types of life experience.  I on one hand was a mono parental mother with 3 children, structured family life and established career, while for him it was an upscale career that brought him in many different area of the country and that took a lot of his time. We met we were both in our early 40.  We were both at that time very open, honest and upfront with each and are now well aware of our sexual pleasures and preferences. We are living an open minded type of lifestyle where we combined daily routine and sexual enhancement and pleasures.  We are both well established professional and are sexually mature, comfortable in our own skins to know we like to share and exchange our sexual appetite and pleasures with others as we feel it allows us to realize some of our fantasies it increase our trust in each other and in our couple as we do not practice and experience this lifestyle on our own.

We embarked on this journey together and we will try to provide our readers some honest and franc review of our participation at specific swingers clubs and event and share with you our personal experience through this lifestyle.

Recently, we have gone to the Entre 2 plaisirs – formerly known and Sauna 3333, swingers club in Montreal and had a good experience.  Although know that each experiences are different, this one for us wasn’t the greatest as we felt the crowd was very disperse in that there was a wide range of age and types of people with different interest for the lifestyle and that’s is correct also as we had no trouble making our own fun in both the fantasy room and the dark room which always bring a interesting twist to our sexual pleasures.  The club is good but the establishment is in need of some minor renovations.  The ground rules are that in common areas such as the inside heated pool, the dry sauna; the billiard (pool) area and the hot tub; no sexual activities can occur other then teasing and touching.  The establishment offers a variety of distinct areas in order to explore sexual pleasures and fantasies such as for example, couples room (only couples are allowed in); glory holes; dark room, fantasies room, where all kinds people including single men of various ages and couple may explore openly their sexual fantasies and pleasures.  The age range vary from time to time depending on the event being displayed and organized. The establishment offers a safe place for swinger couples and singles (men or women) to fully explore their sexuality and always feel good about the experience that they will bring on their own personal journey.  When going to swingers events it is important to enter the experience with an open minded type of view.  Although for us, our last experience was overall a good one, we both feel that there is area for improvement in the couples room where perhaps a distinction should be made evident (perhaps a fluorescent green bracelet), if for example, couples are willing to fully swing since based on our experience it has proven to be difficult to introduce ourselves once in the couples room area as its every couples for themselves.  Being a couple and wanting to fully explore swinging, finding a couple with similar desires, fantasies and passion in our personal experience-practice, has prove to be one of our biggest challenge as we are not a couple desperately looking for new friends.

* Please feel free to share your own experience as well or your personal comments in the language of your choice as we are both fluently bilingual.

Kinky couple 😉 – Gatineau, Ottawa, Montreal and surrounding areas.

 

Swinging tips for single guys

tip for single guys in swinging

Guys you have the hardest struggle of all. There are thousands of you all wanting to get involved in the swinging scene, most it must be said simply because its the easiest way to get sex without getting a mortgage, kids and an overdraft!

Some males are looking for fun in the swinging scene due to broken marriages or relationships, but sadly there also many miss-fits; like the guys who have no social graces and are therefore unable to make friends through work or social gatherings, those who see themselves as gods gift to women, and as a result no woman wants to know them, and sadly the ones who have odour problems.

You will have to make a lot of effort to be picked by a couple or a lady.

Things that may help you.

  • Understanding the concept of Swinging – People who swing are there for their own benefit, to satisfy their own desires and fantasies. The girls are not there to make your dreams come true, if you get lucky that’s great. No one is under any obligation to have sex with you, just because a person is a swinger does not mean they have sex with anyone – there has to be attraction. The girls in the swinging scene are swingers, not cheap or free prostitutes.
  • Honesty – don’t exaggerate your looks, ability, wealth etc. If you are 30 say 30, if 50 say 50. Ladies are more interested in the real you than an age, but if they catch you lying about one thing, they will not trust you on anything else! If you are a married male or a “significant other” playing away from home, say so, pretending to be single but sneaking off to make phone calls, or having to rush off to beat a curfew is not going to fool anyone for very long.
  • Relevancy – If you respond to an ad, make sure you are what the advertiser is looking for. Don’t respond to an ad asking for a 20 something green eyed, blonde male if you are 45, grey hair and brown eyes – you will just frustrate the advertiser by clogging up their mail box.
  • Concise – Make your email response concise, but not a one line “I want to shag you” Make sure that you fit the description of the person the advertiser is looking for, and reiterate the points where you fit the description. Don’t send them a 2000 word essay outlining your every fantasy and experience to date, you can go into these details later. Remember first impressions count, be polite, open, and to the point without being blunt.
  • Grooming – If you get lucky and are invited to meet socially turn up smart. An unshaven, guy in crumpled clothes and smelling of sweat will not get you into their bedroom – unless the girl has specified that she is looking for a bit of rough. On the other hand, don’t wear a bottle of aftershave!. Dress appropriately for the venue, smart casual – clean and pressed clothes – will see you through in most venues. Remember to shower, clean your teeth and brush your hair.
  • Pictures – If you are sending a picture, or putting a picture on your ad follow a few simple rules.
  • Unless requested, always send a face & body shot, don’t use cock shots, girls look at eyes, hands, bums, legs and hair before they look at cocks. It may be your pride and joy, but it is more likely to lose you responses than gain them for you. If they do want to see your 9″ monster they will ask.
  • Use a recent picture, you can fool someone until you meet them. Just because you get them to meet you does not mean you will get any further if the picture was of someone else, or you 10 years ago.
  • Couples – as a single male you are more likely to get action with a couple, than you are with a single girl. Don’t worry, you will find that most of the guys in couples are straight, but they love to watch their wife with another guy/guys. You just clarify before the meet that a) there is a couple by talking on the telephone and b) asking outright if the guy is straight.
  • Parties – There are parties running every weekend. Most are for couples only, some are for couples and guys or greedy girls and guys. It is a sad fact of life that 90% of the time you will be charged more as a single guy than the couples or girls will pay, this is down to supply and demand. Do not go to these parties looking for a one on one session with a girl, it is just not going to happen. If however you follow the rules of etiquette, you are almost guaranteed sex, as the girls who attend these parties like to have lots of men. You will find that most often it is the clubs that cater for single men rather than parties held by swingers in their homes.

Sobriety – Don’t get drunk, or try kissing the girl if you are stinking of beer. Take some breath fresh mints with you. Remember, although the girl is looking for some fun in the sack, she has many other guys to choose from. Whoever you are going to meet remember that although its scary, the other people will be as nervous as you. Don’t get drugged up either. No once fancies people who are not in control of their faculties. A drink to steady the nerves is OK, bouncing off the walls and throwing up is not going to impress anyone.

  • Grace – If you respond to an ad and you get a turn down, don’t harass the advertiser. Be graceful and accept that you may not fit the persons requirements. Sending dozens of mails asking for reasons or being abusive will not get you anywhere, and in many cases will mean that a warning goes around the community to avoid you.
  • Love – Never fall in love with a swinger. Swinging is about having fun with other people. Most of these people are in happy relationships and are looking for sex, not love. Declaring your love for someone is going to complicate the issues, and put strains on everyone’s relationships, you could even destroy the other persons marriage.If you are looking for love check one of the many lonely hearts sites.
  • First Date – Turn Up, On time, remember – You only have one chance to make a first impression – screw up the first meeting and you are history. You will be seen a as timewaster, and couples talk. If you make a good impression they will probably meet you again, they may share you with their friends, and take you to parties. Make a bad impression and the word will go around that you are no good, your chances of swinging will drop to zero. The swinging scene does not work on the adage “Treat ’em mean, keep ’em keen”.

10 things guys should never forget….

Nice article found online by member…:)

 

Don’t be offended, darlings, but a few nips and tucks in your bedroom style might speed things along (in a good way)—leaving us more time for another go at it! 1. The clitoris is right there. Yes, right there. Not over here, not down there, not off to the side. It doesn’t move. Try to stay focused and play with the *****!

2. Take your socks off. Not a single thing is sexy about a man who is naked except for his socks.

3. Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. We may feel “so wet” to you from our own fluids, but we actually need to be pretty drenched with water-based lube for business time.

4. Some women become very aroused by their imaginations, so a little dirty talk about what you’re going to do to us stimulates our biggest sex organ: our brain! (But avoid these 36 words that kill the moment.)

5. If you’re going down on us, make sure to keep your tongue wet with spit. A dry tongue chafes down there!

6. Unless we’ve expressly indicated that we like our headlights to be tweaked, do not pinch our nipples in the heat of the moment. They’re very, very sensitive!

7. Sometimes a light touch is better than a strong one. And a sweet kiss with just your lips is better than a Labrador retriever-style kiss with your tongue.

8. We absolutely adore when you gently, tenderly suckle on our fingers (or our toes, for men with mouths of asbestos).

9. That look of concentration on your face makes it seem like you’re doing calculations in your head, not making love. Smile a little bit, why don’t you?

10. Nipples should be a pit stop on the way to Vaginaville—get off the express train!